The first thing to consider is what kinds of special displays of affection will you bestow upon your finacee? There are all of the standard Valentines Day gifts ranging from jewelry to chocolates to a romantic dinner spect together in a one of a kind restaurant. Each of these gifts and tokens of affection have their place for your fiancee on this special Valentines Day. But what will you do to make the day really stand out? Either by adding that special heart felt component to the day of celebration or by presenting your fiancee with a totally unexpected Valentines Day gift. In the box thinking is not called for here...you need something special.
Where Will You Spend the Day?
Are you going to stay around your home town? Hang out at your place? Maybe see a movie and go to dinner? Or are you going that extra step and planning on a surprise trip to some remote or distant location? If you plan to travel for this one of a kind Valentines Day with your Fiancee you may drive or fly or even take a romantic form of transport like a boat or special train ride. If possible consider keeping some details about the destination and the events of the day a secret so that your fiancee will be pleased as every moment arrives. You do not have to travel far, the trip may even be a short drive to the place where you first met or where you proposed. Once you arrive at your destination make sure there are special accomodations or preparations to make the arrival that much more special.
What Will You Do During these Precious Hours?
Think of something that your Valentines Fiancee would consider extra special on this day of lovers. If the key to your Valentines heart is food maybe a shared cooking class is better than a dinner out. If the key is music or movies how can you arrange for a special one of a kind performance or listening opportunity. If your fiancee loves pets or books or lingerie consider an extra special exposure to whatever is her favorite subject. There are stores and professionals in every category who can be contacted and hired to raise the standard for your gift giving on this day.
How Will You Set the Atmosphere?
OK so you know what gift you might give and where you may go but how will you set the right atmosphere for your fiancee on Valentines Day? Will you work till 6 and then come home and flop down a beat up bunch of roses and some chocolates? Why not take off early and let her boss know you will be picking her up early as well? Make some extra effort to maybe secure a special car for your transportation. If you are going to a nice restaurant put in the effort to secure a table that is not near the kitchen. Remember you will be competing with many other men for these prme accommodations so think ahead and act decisively. Even if you are planning a small dinner at your place take some effort to get a new table cover and some lighting or music which is not the same as every other night.
Valentines Day and Romance
Valentines Day was created for romance. If you are spending what may be the only Valentines Day ever with your fiancee before she becomes your wife make sure you make it special. Rest assured there will be some Valentines Day celebrations in your future that do not go as planned...this should not be one of them.